Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Prayer is Real!


FHE, making popusas!

Laundromat adventures

email 10.28.13


Mi familia! 
This week has been nuts, again, I am starting to realize that this is the way it is going to be, but I love it, I love being busy.  Turns out we did have bed bugs...it was a nightmare!  We had to wash everything EVERTHING, and if we couldn't wash it we had to put it in bags for a week, so we are still not put back together.  But the good news is they exterminated those pesky little guys!  We also had an adventure at the Laundromat, and even found some potentials...so hurray! 
I didn't get your package, so hopefully it comes today!  I am excited, packages are the BEST.  Sweet Sister McCraney sent me a Halloween package this week, it was the best.  And thank you for sending the insurance info...I don't know what happened to the copy that I had in the MTC, but I have it now, so that is great.  I still haven't talked to the doctor about sleeping, but I probably should soon because this week I have really been exhausted. 
This week has been full of answers to prayers.  Last week I was struggling with feeling like a "successful missionary", it is sometimes hard when things fall through, people to come to church...ect!  I just really want someone to really want this gospel.  But we had an awesome district meeting last week and I made the resolve to talk to everyone...and just keep doing everything in my power, and praying, and it worked!  When I say everyone, I mean everyone, even people that speak English!  It is really fun times. 
So back to prayer...One of the other sets of sisters lost their keys at the district meeting, they thought they locked them in the car, but we started searching just in case.  We stopped, said a prayer, and found them in the trash can in the bathroom...simple experience, but powerful.  We asked to know where to find them, and he told us.  We all cried...its been an emotional week. 
Yesterday we decided that we were really going to do everything in our power to help our investigators come to church (the past two weeks no one has come), drastic times call for drastic measures...so we decided to hang out on Norwood (the hood, where the majority of our investigators live) and get everybody moving.  It was the best, just going from door to door, helping with kids, picking out outfits, sharing a scripture here and there...it was so much fun.  Although, by the time we got to church, we were exhausted!  But it was worth it.  Maria was there, and she participated, and we had an awesome lesson in Relief Society about strong women and how we can influence the world, and she loved it!  Moral of the story is, we literally did everything we could, prayed, and the lord made up the difference! 
I know that Heavenly Father answers our prayers, it is up to us if we use the resource or not!  This week has been great, things are starting to roll.  Life is good.  I love you all very very much, thank you for always thinking of me.  Don't forget to be missionaries! 
xoxo Riley Jane

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

we could always use a little more faith!


The sweet pillow case that Leann sent me! Love that woman.

Mana Sevilla, in our hood. It is still freezing, but there have been a couple of sunny days, its the best!

Halloween party.

This is Heidy, she is in our branch, and she is the cutest thing ever. We had a Halloween party.

email 10.21.13


Mi familia!
 
Hola!  It looks like you guys have had another crazy week, as have I!  As always, I just wonder if I will ever feel like I have a normal day here.  I think there is something in the water, because the people in Harrisonburg are nuts.  I love them, but they are crazy!  But mostly it is the best of times. 
 
This week we have been so blessed, we have been teaching lessons like crazy, and finding so many people to teach.  We are starting to feel adjusted to each other, my new companion and I, and learning how we teach together.  We have been really busy, but I like it better that way, less time to sit around and dwell. 
 
I have started reading Matthew and I love it.  I am also only on like chapter 14, because I have too many things that I want to study!  But I love reading all about the parables and the things that Christ did.  One thing that really stuck out to me, and that I have been thinking about all weeks is when Christ walks on water and calls Peter out to meet him.  It says that he notices how stormy and scary the water is, and he starts to falter, but then Christ reaches out and helps him back up.  At first he had the faith to start going and was taking steps on his own, but when he paid attention to the world around him he started to doubt.  I feel like this is what I do all too often.  I am really good at starting out with faith, but sometimes I have moments when I doubt and think I must be crazy for believing that some things can happen.  Sometimes I sink further down, but Christ always pulls me back up.  But I was thinking this morning, why ever doubt, it is just a waste of time!  And I know that Christ is always there, and he will pull me back up, but if I know that, then there is no need to fall anyways.  Working on happiness always over here!  There are so many things that are out of my control, which can be hard at times.  But I was thinking about some advice that Ian Blackwelder gave Nicole and I at Christmas.  He said that sometimes missionaries lose their fire, even with a short time here on my mission I have seen a lot of missionaries that have lost their fire.  Sometimes we just get into the routine and stop caring about the things we are doing.  I have found that if I can have faith, never doubt, and just be happy, it helps other missionaries, and myself to keep that fire.  I love Ian, he is so wise. 
 
With that being said, life couldn't be better.  Seriously.  We are working on helping our investigators progress, and I have been crying like crazy, I just love them so much.  Mostly in our lessons with Ramon and Maria.  They are on their way!  We taught them about temples and eternal marriage, and they loved it.  We also gave them a talk by President Monson, well the whole Liahona, and they read the whole thing together.  Nothing makes me happier than seeing them change, seeing them learn about and accept the gospel.
 
I almost forgot we had a fun Bed Bug adventure this week!  I started noticing these little bug bites on my hands/wrist mid week.  I didn't think much of them, but then I started getting more, and they spread up my neck and on my face.  So I called Sister Wilson and she said we probably had bed bugs.  They are pretty nasty little guys I guess, so we had to tear apart our apartment looking for them, then buy this spray, vacuumed everything, wash all our bedding, it was a huge ordeal.  We didn't find any bugs, and the zone leaders had to come over and inspect too...but I still have the bites...we are not sure what they are but now our apartment is really clean! 
 
Life is good here in Virginia.  I think about you often, about how much I love you and how grateful I am for you.  Thank you for being supportive!  Have the best week ever! 

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Changes


Just everybody.

Twinning! This is Hermana Sevilla!

email 10.13.14


Mi Familia-
 
It sounds like you have been having great adventures in Utah, it all sounds like the best of times!  I am so happy for Uncle Aaron, he deserves it.  Kenna sounds like a regular old college kid!  And I can't wait to see Ryder at Christmas! 
 
This week has been great!  I am still here in Harrisonburg, but everything has changed!  I have the most awesome new companion, her name is Hermana Sevilla, she is from Mexico/Arizonia, and she is the funnest.  We have already had some pretty good gut rolls, and also matched outfits, so you know it was a match made in Heaven.  This week was crazy.  We were running around trying to say goodbye to everyone for Hermana George, and cleaning, and packing, and all that good stuff.  It was sad.  As we were visiting everyone I started to feel really overwhelmed, just a lot of responsibility to know the area and the people and the investigators and all that good stuff.  On Thursday we went down to Charlottesville to drop off and pick up companions.  I got to see Hermana Olsen, she is serving in Charlottesville now, so that was the best!  And then Friday we had weekly planning which took forever, but it is good now, everything is starting to be normal. 
 
On Wednesday it started raining, and it still hasn't stopped, so that makes everything exciting.  Thank you for sending the jackets, It has been freezing all week!  And I loved the one from Costco, so I will send yours back to you.  Thank you thank you thank you!  And Thank you for the water bottle, it is all I ever dreamed it would be!
 
This week I started reading Jesus The Christ.  It is huge, and uses a lot of big words, but I am loving it.  This morning I was reading about our need for a Redeemer, how Christ is part of the plan.   Our Heavenly Father knew that we would not be able to do it on our own, he knew that we would fall, but he gave us the hand to help us get back up.  It talked about how Christ was the only candidate to be the redeemer, he is the only one without sin, and who literally had the ability to keep his life (unlike us, we are subject to death) and the ability to give it up for our sakes.  Sometimes the atonement is hard for me to understand, but I am loving learning all about Christ. 
 
We have found some new people to teach this week, which is always exciting.  Last night we passed by some potential investigators and had an awesome lesson with them.  They are this cute older couple from Cuba, who are political refugees.  We just talked about God's love for us, and how we can strengthen our relationship with him.  They have had some pretty rough times, but they are here now trying to figure out life.  I love them so much.  This morning we went to the Eye Doctor with them to help translate, which was exciting.  Lucky that I have Hermana Sevilla, because I have no idea how to say Retina en EspaƱol! 
 
Tell Grandpa and Grandma to come visit me!  That would be the best ever!  I will send them an email! 
 
I love being a missionary, I love sharing the gospel, and more than anything I just love talking to people.  Getting to know them.  I think I love more people than I every thought I could.  It is the best!  I love you all very much, thank you for your love and support!  I hope you have a great week.    
 
xoxo Hermana Myer

Monday, October 7, 2013

Conference and Craziness


From our hike last week.

Jeep with the zone leaders, they are funny.

Us and Alex, he is one of our neighborhood friends.

We went on a bike ride for pday last week!

More neighborhood ninos!

Reina, the gordita, she is obsessed with us and we are with her too... she's perfect.

email 10.7.13


Mi familia!
 
Hola!  This week has been so full of so many good things that I don't even know where to start! 
 
At the beginning of the week I was feeling a little homesick, I don't know why...we were really busy, and everything was good, but I was just missing normal people that love me I guess.  But of coarse Heavenly Father sends his tender mercies.  The next day I got a letter and a CD in the mail from my dearest Anna.  It was exactly what I needed, she is my number one in the whole world.  And the next day I got the package from you guys, and it was just too perfect.  Just small reminders that you are all still out there and love me!  So thank you, I needed that! 
 
With the letter that Anna sent me she sent me a story about a missionary who was confused as to how come he didn't have the power that he wanted to be teaching with.  Sometimes its hard to be completely focused and in the state of mind to have the full power that we have the ability to have.  He was instructed to do a "40 day fast", from all the things that he did that were "gray areas", rules that he didn't follow exactly, but more than that, thoughts that he needed to stop.  I have found that that is the hardest part for me.  I can do/say/work as hard as I can, and can be doing the things that I am supposed to, but its my thoughts and my deepest desires that are harder to control.  So I decided to do the same thing.  It was actually pretty hard to start it off, but I wrote down a list of all the negative thoughts/though subjects I sometimes have, and pray specifically for those things daily, that I will have the self control to not.  So pretty much, I am working on changing my desires, its harder than I had expected, but I am excited! 
 
We had the most awesome miracle this week!  We had a zone meeting on Friday, where we talked about "obedience October" (we are studying our temple covenants).  Later Friday night we had an appointment with a new investigator.  It has been really hard to get a hold of him, and be able to teach him because he lives with all men, or is home alone, so we have to have a third female to go into his home and teach him.  Friday night we were planning on just teaching him outside, or taking him a couple of doors down to our members house.  (the member is a woman but refuses to ever really leave her house or associate with humans, but she was just going to stay in her room, just so we had someone else in the apartment)...so we got to the appointment and explained to Jesus what our plan was, but he told us that in his culture it is rude to not receive people in your house when they come to visit you, so we would have to reschedule...we were devastated!  But we have a few female member that live close and we knew that if we were being obedient to this rule, the Lord would bless us with a way to accomplish it.  So we started running around asking all our member if they could run down with us, and calling everyone we could think of, to no avail.  We were getting frustrated, but then decided to pray.  As soon as we were done praying the Spanish elders drove past us.  We flagged them down, and they agreed to teach the lesson for us!  It was a miracle! 
 
Conference was the BEST ever.  I loved every minute of it.  I am still trying to process everything, because it was all soo good.  I loved all the talks about missionary work, it is something that we are struggling with up here.  Getting the member excited and involved in helping us.  With such few members here, we really do need their help. I loved Elder Holland's talk, I cried.  I thought about Grandma Marie and the strength she had.  I thought about her being perfected, and when I see her again, I know we will rejoice together!  There was quite a few references to the fact that the decisions we make daily will affect our eternity...which is scary, but true.  Sometimes it seems like a lot of responsibility, but we can do it!  I loved D. Todd Christofferson's talk about women, we rock.  But seriously I thought that it was a good reminded of the power that we have.  And I loved the references to the fact that we do have priesthood power in our lives, even if we are not the carriers of it.  Mostly I loved everything.  We watched it at the church, so that was new for me, but it is always the same.  I was thinking about you guys too, it is amazing how many people were able to partake of the conference together! More thoughts to come!
 
In between sessions yesterday we went to visit Maria (of Maria and Ramon) she is still on date for baptism, but is praying to know what date.  We were just passing by to see how she was, we didn't have a lesson or anything.  After we sang we asked her how she was feeling about everything, the church, her baptism, what was on her mind.  She told us that she knows the church is true, it fills the emptiness in her heart that she has felt in every other church.  It was the first time that I have really felt like someone is getting it, I am helping someone on the path.  The spirit was so strong, and I love her so much.  Hopefully she will be baptized on the 19th!  Pray for her, that she will receive the answer to her prayers!
 
I am not getting transferred, but Hermana George it.  It is sad times over here!  I have just gotten comfortable and into a routine, so I guess its time for a change.  We are also getting another set of hermanas in our branch, so there will be a whole new set of missionaries in the area.  I am excited, it should be good!  And I am really happy I am staying!
 
I love you all very much.  Thank you for your love and support!  I want updates on all your missionary experiences, start praying for those!  I love my Savior, and I love being a missionary!
 
xoxo Hermana Myer!

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

email 9.30.13


Mi familia!  

Mom, you got released!  162 weeks, is a lot of weeks!  But I am so proud of you for going to the temple every single week, you are an inspiration to me.  Also could not be happier about you being a ward missionary, you rock, I am sure they love you.  I wish we had a couple or ward missionaries, that would rock, but we are working on it!  Dad, I am glad all went well with the Primary program, I wish I could have been there!  Someone make Luke write me a letter, how is high school?  

Mom, I love what President Lamprecht in ward council shared about going deeper with people, to the root of their problems.  We have been trying to do that with everyone that we meet with.  Instead of teaching less actives about church attendance, teaching them about faith in Christ, or the importance of Book of Mormon study.  

As far as ward council, I am sure it is very very different!  We meet every sunday (except fast sunday) with Presedente, and the first counselor, and the other set of missionaries.  We have tried to get the relief society president to come, but its a work in progress!  I guess its way more organized than before we came, so thats good news.  

This week, we worked, really hard.  It was the best!  Crazy, but the best!  It was a pretty normal week's work load, but we had some meetings/other events, so we had to cram all our appointments on just a couple of working days. And Cindy sent me the cutest Plan of Salvation images/walk through, she said if I want I can send her the spanish translation and she will make me in in spanish.  She is the best ever!
We did an exchange from Monday to Tuesday, with the Charlottesville Hermanas, and it was awesome.  Hermana Carn came up to Harrisonburg, and it was fun to get a taste of a different missionary.  She is the sweetest, and she helped me to focus on teaching people, not lessons, everything went swimmingly.  

Maria and Ramon invited us over for dinner on Wednesday night, and it was the best.  I hear that when the investigators make food for you it really means they love you.  

I taught Word of Wisdom twice, for the first time in Spanish.  After that lesson, one of our investigators dropped us, and they other dropped her coffee...soo mixed reviews.  But still good.  The word of wisdom just makes so much sense.  

We had Zone conference on Thursday, all day!  We rode with the Zone leaders, so we had to go early (6:30), and didn't get home until 7!  But it was good, President Wilson was there, and we had lots of good trainings and role plays.  We got to role play with another set of spanish elders, and I got alot of good spanish practice.  One of the Elders, Elder Guzman, he is from mexico, and he is the hispanic clone of Boy Riley, so that was funny.  

On Saturday we had the international fair.  We (with all the Harrisonburg missionaries) set up a table and just talked to everyone.  The fair is a community thing where they have all kinds of music/food/booths/activites from all the countries.  It was a good change of pace.  

Saturday night we went to Waynesboro to have dinner and watch the Broadcast with all the stake.  We had three of our hermanas come, and we had the best time.  I loved all the talks.  One thing that I keep thinking about is when the Prophet said that Heavenly Father just loves us.  Its that simple, it does not matter who we are, where we are, how much money we have, he just loves us.  

Sometimes as a missionary things can get overwhelming, there is just so much to do, say, be, remember, and after the zone conference I was feeling a little inadequate.  But one of the zone leaders said something that I loved.  He said, you know what, all you have to do is go outside, move you feet, move your hand (to knock a door), open your mouth and say something that you know that is true.  That is how you share the gospel.  It is just that simple.  I love being a missionary and being able to study to simple doctrine and principals.  

This week I have felt especially grateful for the prophet.  When I heard him speak on Saturday i just started crying.  I feel so blessed to be able to know who he is and have guidance from him.  I am so so so excited for conference, it is going to be the best ever!  

I love you all very much!  

xoxo, Hermana Myer